A Life Full of Family, Unconditional Love, Warmth, Generosity, and Endless Possibilities Awaits Your Child
FROM MY HEART TO YOURS
Hi! My name is Jessica, and I want to start by expressing my heartfelt gratitude that you're taking the time to learn more about me. I truly hope this letter will give you a deeper sense of who I am, the loving, supportive family I have, and the excitement and honor that we all feel about welcoming your child into our big, loving, happy, and financially secure family.
I understand that reading this means you're facing one of the most significant decisions of your life, and I want you to know how deeply honored I am to be considered as a potential adoptive parent for your child. The very fact that you're considering adoption speaks volumes about your immense love, bravery, and selflessness to help someone who is not able to have children on their own. It’s clear to me that you are making this choice out of love, and that alone is incredibly inspiring.
​I can only imagine the depth of emotion you must be feeling, and I want to reassure you that if you choose to entrust me with raising your child, I will do everything I can to offer them a life full of unconditional love, opportunity, and support. I am committed to encouraging and guiding your child to reach their fullest potential, and I will always provide a safe, nurturing environment for him or her to grow and thrive.
Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for considering me as you navigate this important decision. I hope my words bring you some peace and confidence as you move forward. I can’t wait to meet you.
Love, Jessica
ABOUT ME
I absolutely love children and have always dreamed of being a mom. For my entire life, if there is a child in a room full of adults, I am on the floor playing, singing, being silly with the child. I know in my heart of hearts that I was born to be a mom and devote my life to raising a child. My home is beautiful and located in a charming, safe, and family-oriented New Jersey suburb just outside of New York City. It’s a diverse and vibrant community that I’m proud to be a part of.
My home is in a small, gated neighborhood with a clubhouse and a community pool that comes alive in the summertime with so many neighborhood children. My home is on a peaceful spot of the neighborhood at the end of a cul-de-sac, with wooded areas right across the street. There are many children in the neighborhood, and they love to watch the wildlife—rabbits, squirrels, and even deer—that live nearby.
The best part of where I live is that my mom, Cathy, is my next-door neighbor. She is completely retired and available to be my “right-hand gal,” and we are truly best friends. She is really youthful and fun and brings lots of laughter and smiles to all of our lives.
From left to right: My nephew Owen, my brother David, my sister in law Pam, my nephew Luke, my mom Cathy, my brother George, my sister in law Lisa, my father John, me, and my brother Michael
WHY I AM FINANCIALLY SECURE
I’m fortunate to have a very successful career in real estate, and it’s a field I truly enjoy. One of the things I love most about it is the flexibility it offers, allowing me to be fully present for my family. As my own boss, I have the freedom to set my own hours, whether I’m working from home or meeting with clients, while I have a large company behind me with excellent security and benefits and they are a big supporter of single parents.
It’s incredibly fulfilling for me to work in real estate because it allows me to connect with people and help them find their dream homes. I also find great joy in walking through homes and appreciating the craftsmanship in every detail—things like moldings, hardwood floors, door styles, and trim work. It's the little details that often go unnoticed by others, but I truly love. I also love helping people renovate and personalize their spaces. I find the process so enjoyable and satisfying, and I’m proud of the skills I’ve developed over the years.
I am SO excited to meet you!
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE BEING A MOM
I’m blessed to have adopted my daughter Mackenzie at birth and now that Mackenzie is going on 3 years old and attends preschool, this is a wonderful time for me to adopt. I have an open adoption with Mackenzie’s birth family and am so thankful for the love and connection we share. I can’t express how deeply I’m grateful to MacKenzie’s birth family and I think about them with such adoration every day. Should you bless me with raising your baby, I’d love you and I to be able to decide what kind of adoption you feel most comfortable with and the contact you would or would not feel comfortable with after birth. Your comfort is very important to me.
I am a strong believer that grandmas can be a wonderful part of children’s lives. My mom is a big part of our daily life, whether she’s cooking with us, hanging out, or simply spending time with me and Mackenzie. She’s a wonderful presence and an incredible support system, and she can’t wait to share that same love with another grandchild.
I cherish my relationships with my siblings, and I would love Mackenzie to have a baby brother or sister. What’s more, I know that Mackenzie will be an amazing big sister for your baby.
It’s so much more fun for kids to grow up with siblings so they have someone to share car rides, going to the zoo, taking walks in the neighborhood, vacations, Christmas, decorating Gingerbread houses at Thanksgiving, school events and so much more.
Me with my mom, Cathy, and Mackenzie
WHY I LOVE BEING A MOM
I am a completely focused and devoted mom. I love and look forward to all the traditions and celebrations that come with family life, as well as the everyday events that make it so meaningful. And yes, believe it or not, I’m also excited for the sleepless nights, the runny noses, the skinned knees that need kissing, and the busy schedules of getting to school on time. I can’t wait to guide a cranky teenager, help with college applications, and offer comfort when my child feels scared, shy, or uncertain.
I feel incredibly blessed to have a flexible schedule, a strong support system, and the financial stability to provide for a growing family. I am fully ready to offer unconditional love to a child, to make them my everything, and to welcome them as an irreplaceable part of my family.
Mackenzie and I dressed up to go out to dinner.
Mackenzie and I having some Halloween fun!
OUR FAMILY HAS EASILY EMBRACED MACKENZIE AND IS SO EXCITED FOR ME TO ADOPT AGAIN
I’m the oldest of four children and the only girl and we are all very close. We grew up in a small town on a quiet street with my brothers —David, George, and Michael. My grandma, Jean, and grandpa, Edgar, lived just around the corner, and my Grammy Marie, lived in the next town over. My childhood was full of wonderful memories—playing outside, riding our bikes to the playground, being on the town soccer and softball teams, swimming in my grandparents' pool, sledding down the hills after a fresh snowstorm, and countless other moments that shaped who I am today.
Now that I’m a mom, I cherish those same kinds of experiences for my daughter, and I long to create those kinds of memories for your child. I believe in the power of family traditions, the importance of outdoor play, and the joy of simple, happy moments together. I am excited about the idea of offering your child the same love and the chance to build similar memories.
Mackenzie at 6 weeks old spending time with my brothers Michael and George, my mom Cathy, brother David, niece Elizabeth, and nephews Liam, Owen, and Luke. Everyone is so excited!
Me and Mackenzie hanging out with friends Chloe and Nicole, my niece Maeve, sister in law Lisa, my mom Cathy, niece Elizabeth, and sister in law Pam.
MEET MACKENZIE
Mackenzie is going on 3 years old and I feel incredibly blessed to be her parent. She is an amazing little girl—sweet, caring, funny, and inquisitive! Her joy is contagious, and she brings so much happiness to my life and everyone around her. She loves babies and can’t wait to be a big sister. She has found a best friend in our sweet and gentle dog Lexi, who eagerly trots into her room each morning to be greeted by her bright smiles and laughter. Mackenzie’s also quickly becoming an expert traveler, and I can’t wait to see her step into the role of a big sister. Already in Mackenzie’s short life, she and I have traveled to Disney World, Anguilla, Mexico, Yellowstone National Park, Grand Teton National Park, Florida, California, Illinois, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, New York, Wyoming, Idaho, Montana, Arizona, Connecticut, Rhode Island and Vermont. I know she will be an amazing sibling—full of love, kindness, and excitement to have a built-in best friend to share adventures with.
Some of Mackenzie’s favorite activities include going for walks, reading books, dancing, swimming, and snuggling. She gives the best hugs and loves playing with her cousins, forming such sweet bonds with family. Watching Mackenzie grow, learn, and explore the world each day is a joy beyond words. I know that she will bring the same warmth, love, and laughter to her future sibling that she shares so generously with all of us.
Mackenzie enjoying the pool in the Caribbean
Mackenzie on the beach in Mexico
Mackenzie dancing outside at home
FAMILY & FRIENDS
Good times with good friends, from left to right: Isabelle, Lynn, and Barbara. My mom Cathy is in the back, next to me
Though all my siblings are all grown up now, I’m incredibly fortunate that my family is still close by. We have many family members and friends nearby who are a constant source of love, support, laughter, and adventure. They are my people, and they’ll be an integral part of my life— and your child’s life—every step of the way.
My family has always been very involved with Mackenzie, and I know they’ll embrace your child with open arms as well. My mom, Cathy, is right next door, and my dad, John, lives just two towns away. My brother Michael and my brother David and his wife, Pam and their two children, Luke and Owen all live a town away, while my brother George and his wife, Lisa, live two towns over with their kids Liam, Elizabeth, and Maeve.
We’re a close-knit group, and even though my aunt Mary Lou and Uncle Sam live in Florida, that just gives us even more reason to visit! Aunt Mary Lou, a ballet teacher, brought Mackenzie to her dance school to show her all about dance and she can’t wait to do that with your child too. Uncle Sam, who loves music, has introduced Mackenzie to the magic of classic Rock-n-Roll and he would love to do that with your child too.
Everyone in my family is eager to welcome a new little one, and I know they’ll share their love, joy, and wisdom with your child, just as they’ve done with Mackenzie. It means the world to me that we have such a strong, supportive network ready to surround and enrich your child’s life.
FAMILY NEAR & FAR
From left to right, starting in the back: My nephew Luke, my niece Elizabeth, my mom Cathy holding Mackenzie when she was 4 months old, my nephew Liam, and my nephew Owen holding my niece Maeve
Although miles may separate some of us at times, we make it a priority to gather as often as we can. My brother Michael is a frequent guest at our house—whether we're grilling on the deck, enjoying a meal from our favorite local restaurant, or simply playing with Mackenzie. Dinner at our place has become a special tradition, and something everyone is looking forward to a new family addition. Michael is not only an amazing uncle, and I know he’ll be a wonderful role model for your child too.
Mackenzie and I see my brother George, his wife Lisa, and their kids—my nieces Elizabeth and Maeve, and my nephew Liam—at least once a week, if not more. Whether it’s dinner at my place, a meal on their patio, swimming at the community pool, or taking the kids to the zoo or soccer practice, we’re always together. George is such a wonderful uncle to Mackenzie and an incredible role model. He’s eager to be the same for your child, always ready to offer guidance, love, and fun.
I’M A STRONG BELIEVER IN EDUCATION
I attended a large college about four hours from home and had so much fun during those years, and I still love visiting the campus and I’ve brought Mackenzie to visit the college. She loves walking through my old dorms, attending events together, and meeting my friends and their children. I look forward to the day when we can bring your along too, and hopefully, create similar memories for them as they grow.
As Mackenzie gets older, I’m excited to get her excited about college and education in general. I’ll be there every step of the way to support her (emotionally and financially), and I hope to do the same for your child one day.
Mackenzie meeting Albert the Owl
Mackenzie and I feeding Stella, the Giraffe, at the Philadelphia Zoo
CHERISHED MEMORIES
My Gram was truly the best and she and I had a very special bond. She was a remarkable woman and I am incredibly lucky to have had her in my life. She always called me her Angel and told me I was perfect. She and I used to joke that the perfection skipped a generation and missed my mother. My mother would just laugh at us. I remember sleep overs at my gram’s house; her letting me do extraspecial things, like getting ice cream late at night, after my parents had already said no; and sitting at her kitchen table just talking about anything and everything we could while she had her coffee. She had an incredible sense of humor that definitely rubbed off on me. After I grew up and lived on my own she would come over and help me fix things and decorate. She had an eye for decorating and where to place furniture and hang pictures. She gave me little trinkets, like a hot plate for my stove, and furniture like a small table for a kitchen area and a hanging cabinet, that I will always hold near and dear to my heart.
My mom is a huge part of my Mackenzie’s life, and I’m so grateful for the special bond they share. Whether they’re spending time in the kitchen, or simply playing together, my mom brings so much love and wisdom to their relationship. I’m excited to see their connection grow as Mackenzie gets older, and I look forward to the same kind of loving relationship for your child. My mom is eager to welcome another grandchild and share the same joy, laughter, fun, and guidance she’s given to my daughter.
My Grammy, Marie
My mom Cathy, aka the "baby whisperer" with Mackenzie
FUN TIMES WITH COUSINS
Mackenzie with my nephews, Owen and Luke
Mackenzie and my nephew Liam at the pool
A dance party with Mackenzie and my nieces Elizabeth and Maeve
A hug party with Mackenzie and my nieces Elizabeth and Maeve
I currently have 3 nephews and two nieces. Owen, Luke, Liam, Elizabeth, and Maeve are my loves. I am the godmother of two them-Owen and Liam and I love getting to spend the time with them that I do.
Creating memories with them is something I try to do, memories like I have with my own aunt and uncle. My nieces and nephews absolutely adore their cousin Mackenzie and are eagerly hoping for another baby cousin to love.
They often ask when the new cousin will arrive, and I always tell them, “I’m working on it!” They can’t wait!
TRADITIONS
Christmas in Mexico with my Aunt Mary Lou, my mom Cathy, Mackenzie, my brother Michael’s girlfriend Ava, and my brother Michael
Family holidays are a cherished tradition for us, and we usually spend Thanksgiving and Christmas between home and traveling with different family members to warm locations. We all try to fly in and spend at least a week together. It’s such a special time for our family, and Mackenzie loves celebrating these holidays with our family. I can already imagine how wonderful it will be to include your baby in the festivities, sharing all the joy, excitement, love, and presents that come with being together as a family. I truly hope to be lucky enough to adopt another child to be a part of our holiday celebrations in the future.
We’ve started a fun tradition of making gingerbread houses at Thanksgiving. Of course, there’s always more candy eaten by the kids than actually used on the houses, but I love every minute of it! For Christmas, we’ve created a tradition where all the families and cousins wear holiday pajamas on Christmas morning. It’s absolutely adorable seeing them together in their festive PJs. Mackenzie loves this tradition, and we all can’t wait to add another set of matching pajamas for your little one when they join the fun.
TRADITIONS
Celebrating my nephew Liam's birthday with a tower of balloons!
Mackenzie visiting Santa for Christmas
Celebrating Christmas with presents under the tree for Mackenzie, my nieces Elizabeth and Maeve, and my nephews Owen, Luke, and Liam.
BAKING & OTHER
FUN
Mackenzie and Maeve hanging out at Maeve’s house
Mackenzie taking Lexi for a walk
Valentine's Day baking with my nephew Liam and niece Elizabeth
Mackenzie, my nephew Liam and niece Elizabeth, enjoy baking with me, and I look forward to teaching her even more as she gets older. We love baking cakes together, and it’s always a fun experience choosing the food dye to color the cake and frosting. As Mackenzie gets older, I’ve been teaching her the little secrets of baking—like how to measure ingredients, mix them just right, and make the perfect frosting. It will be such a joy to share these moments with her, and hopefully, with another child too in the future!
My nephew Liam and niece Elizabeth enjoy playing with the dinosaurs and Matchbox cars that I keep at my house, and Elizabeth loves to play with dolls and books. Both of them love to have sleep overs with me and Mackenzie.
Our dog, Lexi, loves when Mackenzie’s cousins, Liam and Elizabeth come over and play with Mackenzie, as she gets extra treats and special attention. All 3 kids are loving and gentle with pets and babies, and I look forward to seeing Mackenzie share that bond with a new little one as they grow up together.
SPORTS ARE FUN!
Mackenzie at gym class
Mackenzie practicing her golf putt with my brother, Michael
Mackenzie is already enjoying gym class, and I’m excited to get her more involved in sports as she gets older. I plan to enroll her in tennis and golf lessons at our country club when she is old enough. I’ve always loved being active and playing sports, so I can’t wait to share those experiences with her—whether it's soccer, basketball, or just running around together. I look forward to cheering Mackenzie on at every game and helping her develop confidence through sports.
My nephews, Owen and Luke, are a little older, and we all love our activities together. Mackenzie and I watch them play in their sporting events, we go to the pool together, and attending professional football games. They also love to show off their cooking skills, and we’re lucky enough to have them cook dinner for us now and then! Owen and Luke are so excited about the possibility of a new baby in the family—they’ve already told me they’re ready to come over and play with your child and are calling dibs on who gets to go first! They’re also looking forward to teaching the baby how to cook when they’re old enough.
Watching my nephews grow up has been one of the most amazing experiences, and I’m so excited to hopefully do the same with your child. I look forward to all the laughter, learning, and special moments we’ll share as our family grows.
HOLIDAYS & CELEBRATIONS
For as long as I can remember, our family holidays and birthday celebrations have been about having as much of our family get together as possible. One thing is for sure, there are plenty of laughs and we are loud. Growing up, we had a Christmas tradition with my Gram where she would come to our house on Christmas morning to open gifts. Of course, the children were not allowed downstairs until our Gram got there and my dad made coffee. Looking back on it, I’m pretty sure both my Gram and my dad took their time on Christmas morning just to draw out our anticipation of opening our gifts. It always used to seem like we would wait forever to be able to open our gifts and we would then spend maybe 3 minutes tearing wrapping paper off of the boxes. My mother, we used to always joke, would pick out the tallest Christmas tree possible and we used to have to set up the tree next to the stairs as that is the only place the ceiling was high enough for the tree to stand. We collected our ornaments year after year and my Grammy passed some down to us.
I treasure these special ornaments and Mackenzie loves decorating the tree and talking about the ornaments, sharing the magic of Christmas with her as she grows to love the season as much as I do. Our stockings, hand-knitted with our names, hanging on the fireplace mantle during the holidays. Now, my mother, the expert knitter, is excited to start a stocking for the new baby we hope to welcome into our family soon. Our Thanksgiving Dinner celebrations used to be even larger than Christmas! If family friends didn’t have any relatives nearby, they would join us at our house to celebrate. Our door was—and STILL is— always open. Now, with our growing family, those gatherings mean even more. I think that’s one reason why family holidays are so important to me. I can assure you that your child will grow up in a love-filled home, surrounded by family and friends at all times.
HOLIDAYS & CELEBRATIONS
Mackenzie reading with my brother Michael and his girlfriend Ava
Mackenzie visiting my Uncle Sam
Mackenzie having fun on Halloween at my brother George’s house with George, my mom Cathy, and nephew Owen
Mackenzie on New Year’s Eve with my mom, Cathy
BIRTHDAYS
Even now, when we can't always be together in person, we're still celebrating. Birthdays, holidays, and special occasions like my Mackenzie's birthday always brings our family together, in one way or another. Zoom has become a great tool for us to meet virtually and stay connected.
Whether we're catching up, celebrating a holiday like Thanksgiving when not everyone can be there in person, or singing "Happy Birthday" to someone, we make sure to gather on Zoom. We talk about weekend plans, my nephew's latest game, or just share what's going on in our lives. These moments are something I truly treasure. And I know everyone would absolutely adore having an extra little one on our Zoom calls soon!
Mackenzie celebrating turning 2 with balloons
Mackenzie opening presents on her 1st birthday
Mackenzie celebrating a “half” birthday
THANK YOU
Thank you for taking the time to read and learn about me.
I will always be your child's unconditional, unbreakable support system so that your child can feel the freedom to be creative, resilient and feels free to become anything he or she wants. I believe that education is very important, but I also understand that growth and learning varies from child to child and that's okay. I will teach he or she that no matter which path he or she chooses, I will always be here as his or her biggest cheerleader, sounding board, and safety net. I know it takes a village to raise a child, and I am so fortunate to have such a wonderful family nearby who can't wait to help and be a part of your child's life.
I hope this letter has given you a glimpse into who I am as a person, the kind of mother I strive to be, and the unconditionally loving family your child would be embraced by should you bless me with your child. Your child would always know how cherished he or she is and how deeply loved they will be. I hope this also gave you insight into my values and the nurturing, joy-filled life your child would have with me.
THANK YOU
If I am given the privilege to adopt your baby, please know that I will unconditionally love and treasure him or her while honoring the sacrifices you have made out of your deep love for him or her. He or she will always know their story and the strength and care that led to your decision.
I would be honored to learn more about you and your hopes and dreams for your child. Please feel free to contact me at JessicaHopesToAdopt@Gmail.com or 917-277-5770.
If you have any questions about me or the legal process, please feel free to ask me for the adoption attorney, Suzanne Nichols’ contact information. Suzanne will be happy to speak with you and has a toll free number where she may be reached. She is very nice and easy to talk to.
Thank you for considering me as a parent for your child. Whatever decision you make, I wish you and your baby all the best, now and in the future.